Sep 19, 2026
A patient calls with a broken tooth or a toothache. You find room in the schedule, take care of the immediate issue, and everyone breathes a sigh of relief.
Then you don’t see them again—until another tooth decides to make a dramatic entrance.
We can call them an “emergency patient,” but that label doesn’t tell us much about the person. Something may have kept them away: money, time, fear, or the hope that if they ignored the tooth long enough, it would develop better manners. We won’t know unless we ask.
That’s why an emergency visit can be the perfect opening for a Planning Appointment.
Think about the day this patient has had. They may have missed work, rearranged their schedule, and spent money they weren’t planning to spend. Once the immediate problem is handled, what’s our brilliant next move? “Come back for a cleaning, a full set of X-rays, and an exam so we can tell you what else is wrong.”
I know we mean well. But from the patient’s side of the chair, that invitation may not sound especially inviting.
Instead, give them a reason to come back that connects to what they want. A Planning Appointment creates space to talk about what brought them to this point, what they’d like to avoid in the future, and what a realistic path forward could look like. The patient gets to help shape the plan rather than feel like a plan is being handed to them.
You might say:
“I’m glad we could help with what brought you in today. What's made it difficult to come in before now?”
Or, if today’s visit disrupted their day:
“It sounds like this really threw a wrench in your week. Would you be open to talking about how we could help you avoid another surprise like this?”
Then keep listening:
“What would you most like to feel better about when it comes to your teeth?”
“How do you feel about coming up with a plan that will eliminate unexpected things like this?”
These aren’t magic words. Please don’t print them out, laminate them, and recite them with the enthusiasm of someone reading the airline safety card. Ask the question that fits the person in front of you—and then give them room to answer.
1. Stop treating the emergency visit like a one-tooth transaction. Take care of the reason the patient came in, then get curious about the person attached to the tooth. Ask what made today difficult and what they’d like to be different going forward.
2. Let the patient give you the reason for the next visit. Listen for their words: “I can’t keep missing work,” “I’m tired of surprises,” or “I’ve been putting this off because of the cost.” Use that reason when you invite them back. It will mean more than “The doctor wants a complete exam.”
3. Offer a Planning Appointment before they leave. Give them a specific next step and explain what they’ll do there: sit down with the doctor, talk through their priorities, and work together on a plan. Then make sure the handoff and follow-up reflect what the patient actually told you.
Today’s tooth got them through the door. A plan that belongs to the patient gives them a reason to come back.
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